My Take On Relationships – Take 2

Recently attended a break up party of one of the acquaintances,who’s bf was caught cheating with another colleague of hers. I feel proud that I played a bit in bringing the whole issue in front of her. What followed was the 4year old relationship going kaput and the 2year relationship with the other chick expectedly going kaput!. What I expected was an emotional melodrama .But much to my surprise nothing of that sorts happened. What followed was a party and peace…Oh how do I forget bitching… ;)

Another one friend who ended up her relationship recently was also seen putting up a brave front and using some well deserved adjectives for her partner and yeah it did tickle our ribs ..

One married friend who lives in with her estranged husband coolly passes off her concerns about her future put by her relatives saying “ As of now I get to live for free in Mumbai what else can I ask for”.

I guess Gone are the days when girls would weep and wail over a relationship gone awry. No crying,no depression gals are emerging stronger out of their broken relationships and coming out much better than before ever.I wouldn’t deny the fact that there are still a certain percentage who would wail and weep over a broken relation.. Does weeping over spoilt milk makes sense..? May be this is the policy the new generation gals seems to be adopting. As also when there are many fishes out there in the pond why sob for a particular one .. Right ? ;)

Sobbing and weeping only doesn’t indicate you gave your heart and soul to a particular relationship.So concluding that a female wasn’t serious about her relationship just because she didn’t weep and wail and cry out to the world doesn’t make sense ..rather its utter nonsense. Girls are now putting forth a strong front. As also when the partner is found guilty of cheating , gals are not waiting and weeping.They are moving on in life which I think is the best solution out of an abusive and disrespectful relationship.

What I found lovely was the amazing spirit to bend the rules and come out of an abusive or a relationship without freedom. It’s the courage I salute where gals have decided to put a stop to the ongoing emotional trauma ,give a damn about what the society would think or rather thinks.. But according to me does the society actually think about you.. ? Does it.. If yes then the amount of torture women are subjected to would have never occurred.

So in case you in a relationship devoid of freedom,walk out of it.. because its high time you think about yourself …

SATYAMEVA JAYATE

The little man has done wonders again.After a successful delivery of hit films Aamir Khan is back with a  bang with his reality show “Satyameva jayate”. On the insistence of my friend I decided to watch it.i am not that keen  when it comes to watching reality shows. But then when something comes from Aamir Khan its gonna be superb .

Satya Meva Jayate  is a reality  show that puts light on many social issues that the common man is facing .TV is a powerful medium and exploiting it for the right cause is what Aamir has done.Taking initiative for such a noble cause by Aamir is commendable.The show is devoid of cheap humor ,publicity and strikes the right chord. Even if the situations don’t change , it’s really going to create an awareness among people. Its going to alert people and urge them to open their eyes and fight against the wrong that’s happening. This is one show that’s going to keep my Sunday hooked and I have no qualms about it.For the first time my TV wasn’t an idiot box.

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The theme song by Prasoon Joshi  touches your heart and arouses a feeling of love , a feeling to do something for the country, a feeling to fight against all the wrong, a feeling to make our country a heaven that it used to be.I am sure Aamir is going to deal sensitively with all the topics.We all have watched the first episode dealing with Female Foeticide and it couldn’t have been dealt with more sensitively. I am shocked that people can act beastly .These people could be anyone, your relatives,your neighbor,your friends.Its time to think rationally and act accordingly. It’s time to  raise voice against the wrong things happening around rather than turning a blind eye towards them.

The song “O re chiriya” by Swanand Kirkire is heavenly and deals with the female foeticide issue. Every line of that song is a masterpiece and this was the best platform to come out with such a song. Aamir has got the Midas Touch and every project he touches turns out to be a hit. Well hes got the power to change stuff and I hope he does the same. When an actor of his stature comes up and talks about such serious issues,people are going to take him seriously…specially people of this country who are crazy about Bollywood. Mera Sunday aapke nam- just like you say mai aaraha hu aapko jagane… I am sure this is going to be an eye opener and It would take a long time to go back to sleep ignoring the social issues. And I hope this doesn’t end up like other stupid shows which bring in loads of cheap publicity as entertainment

All the best Aamir. Well done and kudos to you for bringing in this. You have already won my heart with this superb show.  And all I can say is

Tere rang aisa chadh gayaa
Koi aur rang na chadh sake
Tera naam seeney pe likha
Har koi aake padh sakey

SATAYAMEVA JAYATE!!!