Dilbaro …….

 

 

I usually write when I am in the right mood to express things.
So tonight is kind of the right mood to let my thoughts flow freely

This post is dedicated to my two close friends who recently lost their dads.

I saw a post shared by one of them on instagram and I realised that the relationship between a father and daughter is so so beautiful . I

For every daughter, the father is the first role model. A daughter always looks for the qualities of her dad in her man.

In most of the houses, usually a mother's role is in the foreground while taking decisions for the daughter..but the dad is always in the background worrying for the well being of the daughter.. Dads are the best example of heroes without capes.

They are the most underrated heroes of our lives.. They work , slog to give us a good future but the moms always take up the icing on the cake of giving us birth. This post doesn't mean to say dads are more important than a mom in a child's life but i would want to put it as how both are equally important.

Your dad may not express daily what they feel about you, but I am sure all the married daughters would agree that their dads were a little heartbroken when they got married. Your dads are the rocks of your life you can lean to whenever you feel weak

Guys, it is not easy to leave your parental home and step into a new family altogether. Our dads set up the standards so high that we expect our men to meet those standards of love and respect.

I was listening to the song Dilbaro from the movie Razi and I must say the lyrics written by Gulzar are mesmerising.It brought out every emotion in me.

The lyrics go this way :
Ungli pakad ke tune
Chalna sikhaya tha na
Dehleez oonchi hai ye, paar karaa de

Baba main teri mallika
Tukda hoon tere dil ka
Ikk baar phir se dehleez paar karaa de

True that we have been taught everything but not how to stay apart from our dads or parents after we get married.. Doesn't matter how old you grow... you will still need them.You will still need them around.
For kids who have a stressful relation with their dads, mend fences as soon as you can and for others treasure your moments with your parents...they are priceless

Time has come when we help them cross every oonchi dehleez :)

I tried to sing this beautiful song.. just a few lines after so many years.. My sister Priya Raj heard it and said that my voice sounded sweet . People who know me know how i sound :D But as phoebe says the phlegm makes her sound sexy... the phlegm worked for me as well i guess !

I may have missed out on few notes here and there but it was a spontaneous one,,,, excuse me for the same

 

 

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